3.You Won’t Feel Part Of A Team
4.You Have To Guess What Your Partner’s Really Thinking
Good communication is essential if you want to see your relationship grow. The right one will have no problem sharing their feelings with you, even if it makes things uncomfortable. You don’t have to be a mindreader to know what they’re thinking because they tell you. According to Scott, the wrong partner “won’t care enough to keep you apprised of the goings on in their life, nor will they choose to share their feelings with you.” While some people may take time to be vulnerable, take note if your partner never seems to open up at all.
5.Your Partner Assumes They Know You When They Don’t
It’s nice to be with someone who feels like they know you inside and out. But people are constantly changing. When you’re with the wrong person, they’ll stop putting in the effort to keep learning more about you. “They may feel confident in thinking they know what you want, both in and out of the bedroom, and may not take the time or effort to check in with you,” Fraley says. They might make excuses like, “That’s not what you liked before,” which can then leave you feeling unheard or unfulfilled.
6.You Never Get A Chance To Enjoy Being In Your Relationship
If you’re with the wrong person, you likely don’t really get to enjoy being in your relationship because you never get to relax. “No matter how hard you try, if you’re with the wrong person, you will never feel safe,” dating coach Treva Brandon Scharf, tells Bustle. “You’ll always be nervous, anxious, and waiting for the other shoe to drop.” Of course, if you don’t feel safe physically or emotionally, it may be time to reach out to loved ones or a professional for help with exiting the relationship
7.You Question Your Worth
You can be the most perfect person in the world. But when you’re with the wrong person, they’re always going to make you feel like you’re less than. “Being in the right relationship has a way of helping you see your own greatness by acknowledging your strengths instead of pointing out your weaknesses, while reminding you of the reasons why they love being in a relationship with you in the first place,” Angela Lenhardt, life coach and author, tells Bustle. It just feels healthy and gives you the freedom to be who you truly are.
You can try really hard to make a relationship work. You can even give it time and have a lot of faith that things will eventually change. But at the end of the day, some things really aren’t meant to be. If these things are happening in your relationship, and you don’t feel safe, happy, or cared for, you may be with the wrong person, and it may be time to reach out for help to leave the situation.
