How To Know If You Actually Want To Marry Him? The Best 6 Check Points

Just think about it for a moment. What would it be a life with constant care for the other?

If he doesn’t feel well instead of moaning how men act like they’re dying every time they have a cold (for the record – yes, they do!), just put the pills in his hand, make him a tea and kiss him. Everyone needs that when they don’t feel well.

When she’s in her “moody” days, and it’s not fun to communicate, a simple hug and assurance she’s your beautiful girl could do wonders. If that doesn’t work, reach out to a woman’s best friend… No, it’s not diamonds. Chocolate! Chocolate is the woman’s best friend!

When the other feels stressed ask what happened, listen and sympathise instead of judging.

That’s care. And we need it every day of our lives. Please, offer the same or even more in return.

Life Goals and Plans

You need to share the same life goals and plans. Even if you’re so different and especially if you want to marry him/her.

What do I mean? Yes, you are different and should be like that. Yes, you have different dreams and goals you want to achieve, and it should be like that.

But they still have to match each other.

For instance – if your dream is to travel around the world till your middle 30s and live life day by day, and your partner’s vision is to get to the highest possible position in the company they work for… you know one of those is not going to happen.

To know if you really want to marry him/her, you need to walk in the same direction.

Achieving your dreams shouldn’t ruin his and vice versa.

I know I said compromises, but those are the compromises you shouldn’t do for anyone. Love is not based on that type of compromises.

You should both want children, or both don’t want children. You should both want a life on the road, or you should both like to settle in one place. The dreams are individual, but the direction has to be the same.